Ate Neneng has been feeling under the weather recently, so she went to the doctor for a general examination and blood tests, and was told to come back the following Tuesday for the results. The other day the secretary called her to say, "There's something wrong with your liver. Don't worry. Just come in and the doctor will tell you." Why the hell would you ever do that? She's coming in anyway that Tuesday. She has an appointment. Why call her up and say something is wrong just to make her shit her pants all day and night until she meets with the doctor? Don't fucking say anything. She'll know in due time. If anything you're making her health worse as she sits in bed and thinks about what deadly problem could be ravaging her body. Where in your mind did you think this would be a good idea?

(There ultimately wasn't anything bad; she just can't drink or smoke, which she doesn't do anyway so it's no biggie.)